Adopting "Worst Case Scenario" in Real Life

 

A man might be very different from what you think he is. Just calm down and never expect the best or your ‘heart choice’ from him.

Mark Twain says “Man is like a moon, he has a dark side which he never shows to people.” It is also said, a man has three faces: the first face he shows to the world, the second he shows to his family, and the third is never known by anyone except him. The third one is his reality.

Moreover, I once said try to interact with people with the face they show to the world, but do not blame them when their attitudes change. This is to say, do not expect me to do things you like. If you like me today, you may dislike me tomorrow —maybe for my attitudes, views or sayings.

So, love people for what they are not for what you want them to do/be. If you do this, you won’t have a problem quarrelling with people for changing their attitudes or showing their realities.

And do not expect people to accept things you cherish, everyone does or accepts things based on what they view or have an interest in.

Meanwhile, philosophically, in all the stages of life, one needs to understand why things distort, resort or sort according to the laws of nature. If you surely get this, you will get to know why you were born and why you will die one day.

It is said, the most important thing to build as a man is to develop self-confidence. This time, to be a man of your words is easier. However, you should be very aware of building a confident perplexation of self-deceit —as it could definitely be destruction.